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Creating a Relapse Prevention Plan

Your Roadmap to Staying Sober

Addiction Education

Treatment Methods

September 10, 2025

4 min read

Relapse is not a failure—it’s a risk to be managed

Having a relapse prevention plan is one of the most effective ways to stay on track in recovery. At BeBold Recovery, we believe preparation is protection. This guide will help you build a personalized, powerful relapse prevention plan to support your ongoing sobriety.

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Why You Need a Relapse Prevention Plan

According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, 40-60% of people in recovery experience a relapse. But a clear and actionable plan can reduce that risk significantly.

Key changes you’ll experience:

Physical detox and brain chemistry recalibration
Emotional sensitivity and mental clarity
Sleep disturbances or improvement
Shift in daily structure and decision-making

Common examples of triggers:

Seeing someone using
Visiting a place you associate with substance use
Stress or emotional turmoil
Celebrations or holidays
HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired)

Benefits of having a sober network:

Reduces feelings of isolation and loneliness
Increases accountability and motivation
Provides emotional support during cravings or setbacks
Encourages personal growth and shared purpose
Helps you develop new sober friendships and social activities

Benefits of having a sober network:

Reduces feelings of isolation and loneliness
Increases accountability and motivation
Provides emotional support during cravings or setbacks
Encourages personal growth and shared purpose
Helps you develop new sober friendships and social activities

Getting back to your career or education can help:

Restore self-esteem and purpose
Provide structure and routine
Rebuild healthy social connections
Reinforce your motivation for sobriety

But without a plan, the stress and triggers of busy environments can pose a relapse risk.

Benefits of family involvement:

Improves communication and trust
Reduces risk of relapse
Heals long-standing emotional wounds
Promotes accountability and structure
Helps break generational cycles

What Should Be in Your Plan?

Week

Physical Symptoms

Emotional Symptoms

Fatigue, insomnia, headaches

Anxiety, irritability

Muscle aches, sweating

Depression, mood swings

Improved energy

Cravings, mental fog

Regulated sleep

Optimism, increased clarity

Benefits of having a sober network:

Triggers and Warning Signs
Coping Strategies
Emergency Contacts
Support Network Map
Daily and Weekly Routines
Motivation Reminders

Cravings tend to follow a pattern:

Trigger – Something activates the memory of use
Automatic Thought – "Just one won’t hurt"
Craving – The physical/emotional urge to use
Response – Either coping or relapsing

The key to success: Learn how to pause and interrupt the cycle before it reaches the final stage.

1. Peer Recovery Groups

Join regular meetings with:

12-Step groups (AA, NA, CA)
SMART Recovery
Refuge Recovery or Dharma Recovery

2. Therapists and Counselors

Licensed professionals can:

Guide emotional healing
Help address co-occurring mental health issues
Offer individualized strategies for staying sober

3. Recovery Coaches or Sponsors

These mentors:

Offer lived experience guidance
Are available in moments of crisis
Help with step work and life transitions

4. Family and Friends

Healthy family members and supportive friends can:

Celebrate your milestones
Respect your boundaries
Show up when it matters most

5. Online Recovery Communities

Digital groups, apps, and forums offer 24/7 access to:

Peer encouragement
Live chats and forums
Accountability trackers

1. Peer Recovery Groups

Join regular meetings with:

12-Step groups (AA, NA, CA)
SMART Recovery
Refuge Recovery or Dharma Recovery

2. Therapists and Counselors

Licensed professionals can:

Guide emotional healing
Help address co-occurring mental health issues
Offer individualized strategies for staying sober

3. Recovery Coaches or Sponsors

These mentors:

Offer lived experience guidance
Are available in moments of crisis
Help with step work and life transitions

4. Family and Friends

Healthy family members and supportive friends can:

Celebrate your milestones
Respect your boundaries
Show up when it matters most

5. Online Recovery Communities

Digital groups, apps, and forums offer 24/7 access to:

Peer encouragement
Live chats and forums
Accountability trackers

Step 1: Prepare Mentally and Emotionally

Ask Yourself:

Am I ready for the stress, pressure, or triggers?
Do I have support systems in place?
Can I maintain my recovery commitments?

Pro Tip: Talk this through with your sponsor, therapist, or case manager. Create a relapse prevention plan specific to work/school triggers.

Step 2: Set Realistic Expectations

You don’t have to do it all at once. It’s okay to:

Start part-time or with fewer classes
Work in a lower-pressure role temporarily
Take breaks or use leave when needed

Common Challenges & Coping Strategies

Step 3: Decide What to Share (and With Whom)

You are not obligated to tell everyone. Consider disclosing your recovery only when necessary (e.g., requesting accommodations or sharing with trusted supervisors).
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What you might say:

“I’m prioritizing my health and have new routines in place.”
“I don’t drink/use anymore and focus on my wellness.”

Step 4: Create a Daily Recovery-Friendly Schedule

Include:

Morning grounding rituals (journaling, prayer, exercise)
Check-in texts with sober peers
Lunch breaks in safe spaces
After-work recovery meetings or relaxation routines

Common Challenges & Coping Strategies

Step 5: Use Your Support Tools

Essentials for the transition:

Sponsor or peer coach
Weekly therapy or support group
Daily tracker (app or planner)
Affirmation cards or motivation journal

Apps to explore:

Sober Grid
I Am Sober
Recovery Path

Step 1: Educate Yourself About Addiction

Understanding the disease of addiction can help you support your loved one with compassion, not blame.

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Key topics to explore:

Addiction as a brain-based disorder
Common co-occurring mental health issues
The recovery process: detox, PHP, IOP, OP
Relapse risk factors and warning signs

Step 2: Set Healthy Boundaries

Boundaries protect your wellbeing and promote healthier dynamics.

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Examples:

“I will not allow substances in my home.”
“I’m available to talk, but not when you’re high.”
“If you miss treatment, I won’t enable excuses.”

Pro Tip: Boundaries are not punishments—they are self-respect in action.

Step 3: Focus on Communication

Effective family communication means:

Using “I” statements instead of blame
Listening without interrupting
Expressing emotions calmly and honestly

Try this formula: “I feel [emotion] when [behavior], because [reason]. I need [clear boundary or request].”

Step 4: Participate in Family Therapy or Support Groups

Healing is faster when families are supported too.
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Options to consider:

Family therapy through your loved one’s treatment provider
Al-Anon, Nar-Anon, or Families Anonymous
BeBold Recovery’s #BeOne Family Program

Step 5: Stop Enabling—Start Empowering

Enabling can delay recovery. Empowerment supports responsibility.

Examples of enabling vs. empowering:

Step 6: Practice Self-Care and Forgiveness

You can’t pour from an empty cup.

Set aside time for hobbies, therapy, or spiritual practices
Talk to a counselor about your feelings
Journal about your grief, anger, or hope
Allow yourself to forgive—even when trust takes time

Affirmation: “I am allowed to heal, too.”

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Step-by-Step: Building Your Plan

Step 1: Identify Your Personal Triggers

Triggers can be emotional, physical, environmental, or social.
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Examples of common relapse triggers:
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Stress, anxiety, or depression
Relationship issues
Peer pressure
Isolation or boredom
Overconfidence ("I can handle just one")

Step 2: Know Your Early Warning Signs

These are changes in your thoughts, behaviors, or emotions that signal danger:
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Skipping meetings
Not answering calls from your sponsor
Romanticizing past use
Lying or isolating
Losing motivation or structure

Step 3: Choose Coping Strategies That Work for You

Effective relapse prevention tools:
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Mindfulness and breathing techniques
Journaling or art therapy
Exercise or physical movement
Calling your sponsor or therapist
Attending a meeting (in-person or virtual)

Step 4: Map Your Support System

Create a list with phone numbers and roles:
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Sponsor or recovery coach
Close sober friends
Therapist or counselor
Emergency helpline (e.g., 1-800-662-HELP)

Step 5: Structure Your Routine

Recovery thrives in consistency. Use your plan to:
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Schedule meetings
Set goals and check-ins
Plan sober activities and hobbies

Step 5: Keep Growing Your Network

Volunteer at recovery events
Join sober sports, clubs, or spiritual groups
Stay active in alumni or aftercare programs

Phase

What It Looks Like

What You Can Do

Trigger

Passing liquor store

Take a different route

Automatic Thought

“I’ve earned this”

Challenge the thought

Craving

Bi-Sweating, racing heart

Use coping tool (see below)

Response

Urge passes or relapse

Stay connected, ask for support

10 Proven Tools to Handle Cravings

The 5-Minute Rule – Tell yourself to wait 5 minutes before doing anything. Most cravings fade.
Call a Sponsor or Peer – Connection disrupts the craving cycle.
HALT Check-In – Ask: Am I hungry, angry, lonely, or tired?
Breathing Exercises – Deep, focused breathing resets your nervous system.
Mindfulness & Grounding – Focus on the present moment with techniques like 5-4-3-2-1.
Go for a Walk – Physical movement helps reduce anxiety and distracts the mind.
Journal It Out – Write what you’re feeling instead of acting on it.
Change Your Environment – Leave the place or situation that triggered you.
Recovery App Check-In – Use an app like WEconnect or SoberTool.
Attend a Meeting – Get face-to-face or virtual support.

Visual tool:

Day

Morning

Afternoon

Monday

Journal + Walk

Group Session

Dinner w/ Peer

Tuesday

Meeting + Coffee

Work/School

Recovery App Check-in

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What to Do If You Slip

Slipping doesn’t have to turn into a full relapse. Your plan should include:

A non-judgmental step-by-step response protocol
Who to call and what to say
How to reset the day without shame

Example:

Call sponsor and therapist
Attend a support group immediately
Reflect and journal what happened
Revisit plan and adjust

Elements of a Strong Sober Support Network

Support Type

Frequency

Purpose

Peer Group

1-3x/week

Shared experience and insight

Sponsor/Coach

Weekly

Accountability & emotional check-ins

Therapist

Bi-weekly

Mental health & trauma support

Family/Friends

Ongoing

Love, encouragement, practical help

Online Communities

Daily

On-demand support & motivation

Week

Physical Symptoms

Emotional Symptoms

Fatigue, insomnia, headaches

Anxiety, irritability

Muscle aches, sweating

Depression, mood swings

Improved energy

Cravings, mental fog

Regulated sleep

Optimism, increased clarity

Identify

List your top 5 triggers

Avoid

Come up with a way to reduce exposure

Respond

Assign a coping strategy to each trigger

If you start to feel overwhelmed, reach out. Signs to watch for:

Skipping meals or meetings
Avoiding friends or isolating
Feeling like you’re "faking it"
Resentment, burnout, or overcommitment

When to Seek Help

Week

Physical Symptoms

Emotional Symptoms

Fatigue, insomnia, headaches

Anxiety, irritability

Muscle aches, sweating

Depression, mood swings

Improved energy

Cravings, mental fog

Regulated sleep

Optimism, increased clarity

Benefits of having a sober network:

Triggers and Warning Signs
Coping Strategies
Emergency Contacts
Support Network Map
Daily and Weekly Routines
Motivation Reminders

If cravings become overwhelming or constant, it may be time for:

Medication-assisted treatment (MAT)
Intensive outpatient support
One-on-one therapy

1. Peer Recovery Groups

Join regular meetings with:

12-Step groups (AA, NA, CA)
SMART Recovery
Refuge Recovery or Dharma Recovery

2. Therapists and Counselors

Licensed professionals can:

Guide emotional healing
Help address co-occurring mental health issues
Offer individualized strategies for staying sober

3. Recovery Coaches or Sponsors

These mentors:

Offer lived experience guidance
Are available in moments of crisis
Help with step work and life transitions

4. Family and Friends

Healthy family members and supportive friends can:

Celebrate your milestones
Respect your boundaries
Show up when it matters most

5. Online Recovery Communities

Digital groups, apps, and forums offer 24/7 access to:

Peer encouragement
Live chats and forums
Accountability trackers

1. Peer Recovery Groups

Join regular meetings with:

12-Step groups (AA, NA, CA)
SMART Recovery
Refuge Recovery or Dharma Recovery

2. Therapists and Counselors

Licensed professionals can:

Guide emotional healing
Help address co-occurring mental health issues
Offer individualized strategies for staying sober

3. Recovery Coaches or Sponsors

These mentors:

Offer lived experience guidance
Are available in moments of crisis
Help with step work and life transitions

4. Family and Friends

Healthy family members and supportive friends can:

Celebrate your milestones
Respect your boundaries
Show up when it matters most

5. Online Recovery Communities

Digital groups, apps, and forums offer 24/7 access to:

Peer encouragement
Live chats and forums
Accountability trackers

Affirmations to Stay Focused

Week

Physical Symptoms

Emotional Symptoms

Fatigue, insomnia, headaches

Anxiety, irritability

Muscle aches, sweating

Depression, mood swings

Improved energy

Cravings, mental fog

Regulated sleep

Optimism, increased clarity

Benefits of having a sober network:

Triggers and Warning Signs
Coping Strategies
Emergency Contacts
Support Network Map
Daily and Weekly Routines
Motivation Reminders

Repeat these when cravings hit:

“This feeling will pass.”
“I am stronger than my urge.”
“I’ve come too far to go back now.”

1. Peer Recovery Groups

Join regular meetings with:

12-Step groups (AA, NA, CA)
SMART Recovery
Refuge Recovery or Dharma Recovery

2. Therapists and Counselors

Licensed professionals can:

Guide emotional healing
Help address co-occurring mental health issues
Offer individualized strategies for staying sober

3. Recovery Coaches or Sponsors

These mentors:

Offer lived experience guidance
Are available in moments of crisis
Help with step work and life transitions

4. Family and Friends

Healthy family members and supportive friends can:

Celebrate your milestones
Respect your boundaries
Show up when it matters most

5. Online Recovery Communities

Digital groups, apps, and forums offer 24/7 access to:

Peer encouragement
Live chats and forums
Accountability trackers

1. Peer Recovery Groups

Join regular meetings with:

12-Step groups (AA, NA, CA)
SMART Recovery
Refuge Recovery or Dharma Recovery

2. Therapists and Counselors

Licensed professionals can:

Guide emotional healing
Help address co-occurring mental health issues
Offer individualized strategies for staying sober

3. Recovery Coaches or Sponsors

These mentors:

Offer lived experience guidance
Are available in moments of crisis
Help with step work and life transitions

4. Family and Friends

Healthy family members and supportive friends can:

Celebrate your milestones
Respect your boundaries
Show up when it matters most

5. Online Recovery Communities

Digital groups, apps, and forums offer 24/7 access to:

Peer encouragement
Live chats and forums
Accountability trackers

Motivation Matters

Benefits of having a sober network:

A written list of "Why I Stay Sober"
Favorite quotes or mantras
Photos of family or future goals

Affirmations to include:

"I am worth a life of peace and purpose."
"I don’t need substances to feel whole."
"Each choice I make builds my new life."

Final Thoughts: Prevention Is Power

Relapse doesn’t start with using again—it starts with old thinking. A relapse prevention plan gives you a proactive edge to recognize risks early and take action quickly.

At BeBold Recovery, we help every client build a custom relapse prevention plan as part of their treatment. If you need help today, we're here.

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